Synopsis
Psychology, having come of age under the influence of Descartes and other champions of the thinking "I," has come to focus largely on what happens inside the self. This perspective expanded with the emergence of social psychology and, more recently, cultural psychology, but by and large, the field has taken an essentially ego-centric approach. Working from this basic premise, Mark Freeman proposes that we adopt a more "ex-centric" perspective, one that affirms the
priority of the Other in shaping human experience. In speaking of the "Other," Freeman refers not only to other people, but also to those non-human "others," nature, art, God, that take us beyond the ego and bring us closer to the world. In speaking of the Other's priority, he insists that there is
much in life that "comes before us." By thinking and living the priority of the Other, we can therefore become better attuned to both the world beyond us and the world within.
At the heart of Freeman's perspective are two fundamental ideas. The first is that the Other is the primary source of meaning, inspiration, and existential nourishment. The second is that it is the primary source of our ethical energies, and that being responsive and responsible to the world beyond us is a defining feature of our humanity. There is a tragic side to Freeman's story, however. Enraptured though we may be by the Other, we frequently encounter it in a state of distraction and
fail to receive the nourishment and inspiration it can provide. And responsive and responsible though we may sometimes be, it is perilously easy to retreat inward, to the needy ego. The challenge, therefore, is to break the spell of the "ordinary oblivion" that characterizes much of everyday life.
The Priority of the Other can help us rise to the occasion.
Mark Freeman sets a frame for a poetics of the other with passion and deep conviction. This work is grounded in the postmodern challenge of the core notion of the self that has been the underpinning of the discipline of psychology... The power of The Priority of the Other is that it presents a positive and provocative summons to awaken to the other. It is a summons desperately needed in a world out-of-balance with ego orientation rather
than person orientation... Mark Freeman's work is of critical importance to anyone daring to wrestle with the unbouded question of how we can co-construct a world that is inclusive, just and peaceful. * Dr Samuel Mahaffy *