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Why Won't You Apologize?
Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts
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Renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language, "I'm sorry," and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken relationships and restoring trust. Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies for more than two decades, namely, why some people won't give them. Now she offers compelling stories and solid theory that demonstrates the transformative power of making amends and what is required for healing when the damage we've inflicted (or received) is far from simple. Readers will learn how to craft a meaningful apology and avoid signals of insincerity that only deepen suffering. In Why Won't You Apologize? Lerner challenges the popular notion that forgiveness is the only path to peace of mind and helps those who have been injured to resist pressure to forgive too easily. She explains what drives both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, and why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own their misdeeds. With her trademark humour and wit, Lerner offers a joyful and sanity-saving guide to setting things right.
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Feb 23rd 2017, 18:06
A must have resource
Excellent - 8 out of 10
This book has powerful stories and solid theory about how much the simple apology matters and why we so often muck it up. The information and examples are presented with wit and intelligence. Lerner explains how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid making mistakes that only deepen the original injury. She offers a unique perspective and reminds us that as human beings we are going to make mistakes and we are going to feel wronged. This is a book we must all have as a resource.
Feb 23rd 2017, 18:02
This book is a must have resource
Excellent - 8 out of 10
This book has powerful stories and solid theory about how much the simple apology matters and why we so often muck it up. The information and examples are presented with wit and intelligence. Lerner explains how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid making mistakes that only deepen the original injury. She offers a unique perspective and reminds us that as human beings we are going to make mistakes and we are going to feel wronged. This is a book we must all have as a resource.
Feb 23rd 2017, 18:02
This book is a must have resource
Excellent - 8 out of 10
This book has powerful stories and solid theory about how much the simple apology matters and why we so often muck it up. The information and examples are presented with wit and intelligence. Lerner explains how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid making mistakes that only deepen the original injury. She offers a unique perspective and reminds us that as human beings we are going to make mistakes and we are going to feel wronged. This is a book we must all have as a resource.
This book is a game changer -- Brene Brown, PhD, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Rising Strong Draws you in with deft and engaging prose, and then changes your life with her rigorous intelligence and her deeply human advice -- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT author of Mating in Captivity